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2006/7/26

Cham-ism #? --Valentine or no?

Please.
 
Radiate the dignity you are born with, and exercise decency towards us womankind, by NOT asking us out for Chinese Lovers' Day when you don't even know us.

I'm no love expert, but know enough to understand that certain things must be done and gone through before something meaningful and solid can be built, and felt.

I don't just go out with someone because of what the world conditioned me to think or feel. It would take two beings in consensus of what love is.

I appreciate the ones who just drop by to joyfully wish me happiness for that day. I am sure, what goes around, comes around.

I only wish to encourage you to find and feel the love on you own even if you have no one yet. I believe finding your self and creating a meaningful life before meeting that someone, is important.

Wishing you all truely blissful, loving, and romantic days this year.

2006/6/9

Cham-ism #8--A Woman's Mark

A woman leaves her mark not with her beauty, nor her lipstick, but with her endowed, innate ability to invoke the love in others.
2005/12/18

Cham-ism#7 Paradigm Shift

 
It is the greatest gift, to experience a total paradigm shift. 
 
 
2005/10/2

Cham-ism#6 Here and Now

September 25, 2005 by Cham
  
有些事 有些人 無論多美 多令人依戀 
 
亦 或
 
多令人悲傷 多令人深惡痛絕
 
畢竟都是 過去了 
 
是的 真的 就是 過去了
 
一切 不會再重來 就算會 卻不會是一模一樣的了 
 
每一分 秒 你的心情 都已不同 怎可期待他人不變?
 
這就是 時間魔法
 
就 讓回憶做它自己吧 深深的 在你靈魂裡
 
就 活在 當下
 
留戀 沉浸在過去 或 被 恐懼 嚇阻無限可能的 未來 無用
 
就 把握 當下
 
--這個 聖人有過去 罪人有當來 的 希望 轉捩點 
 
帶著對過去人事物的祝福 重新 創造 你我的 幸福實像
 
 The present (現在) is indeed a "present" (禮物)!
2005/9/22

Cham-ism#5 如果真的愛

September 22, 2005 by Cham 
 
一個人如果真的愛你 他會在乎你在乎的事 而不是因你在乎而傷害你
 
只因 他只重視他自己
 
就如
 
神對你的意願 就是你對你自己的意願 祂並不會因你的選擇而傷害你
 
If a man truely loves you, he would care about the things you care about, instead of hurting you because you care--the reason being that he only cares about himself.
 
Similarly, just as God wills upon you, what you will upon yourself.  HShe does not hurt you because of the choices you make.
2005/9/12

Cham-ism#4 The Ultimate Lesson

September 12, 2005 by Cham
 
The ultimate lesson of us being human, is to try and stand in other people's shoes to see, why they react a certain way to you, to feel what they feel, and in turn, learn about the self, in order to see the Truth that is surrounded by habits the mind clings to.
 
I also saw something similar in Chinese after: 
為什麼我們的世界那麼苦?因為我們要了解人家的苦心,我們心量才擴大。心越擴大我們越偉大,我們越變成跟萬物同一體。如果我們還有隔開的感覺,還是只想我們自己而已,我們就沒辦法跟萬物同一體。--SMCH
2005/8/29

Cham-ism #3 最渴望愛的人

August 29, 2005 by Cham
 
表面上表現出 最自我自衛而不妥協 散發冷漠和距離 使自己好似超級忙碌沒空愛 的人
 
其實 是最渴望愛的人
 
 
2005/8/5

Cham-ism #2 持續 蛻變

August 5, 2005 by Cham 

把自己變得更美好 並不保證會被愛 但你會更發現 發展 和 更愛自己

而當你更愛自己時(可不是自戀或自私喔) 真愛 便離你不遠

2005/7/29

Cham-ism #1: Length and Depth

 
July 29, 2005 by Cham
 
Length and Depth
 
慾望只能寸進, 愛, 卻可以很深;
 
而散發自你甚深完美內在的真愛, 無限.
 
Lust may inch in, but love seeps deep;
 
the true love that originates from within, infinite.